IVI SLUT · ADULT DICTIONARY · 18+

Dom

BDSM

What the term means

Short for dominant: a person taking the leading role in an agreed BDSM interaction.

In detail

This expression belongs to the vocabulary of consensual BDSM relationships and scenes. It is important to distinguish a chosen role from everyday status or from behavior without agreement. Different participants may use the same word in somewhat different ways.

Context and distinctions

To understand “Dom” more precisely, compare the related entries: Domme, Dominance, Submissive. They may appear in the same discussion, yet they do not necessarily mean the same thing.